9 Best Gender Neutral Toys Perfect For Every Child

Clare Wellham
Dec 22, 2023 By Clare Wellham
Originally Published on Jul 05, 2021
Little boy and girl sat on the floor playing with colourful plastic blocks, a gender neutral toy.
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Gender neutral toys are great toys for everyone; they're just not targeted specifically at either boys or girls.

You'll find you are familiar with many gender neutral toys: baby gyms, animals and garden toys often fall within the 'gender neutral' category. On the other hand, some toys actively address gender stereotypes and inequalities.

These toys are great for all kids to play with, as they work against social stereotyping and begin conversations about equality, kindness and individuality. They can also be a light in the dark for parents or kids who have questions about gender identity.  

Kids' toys have only been marketed with heavy gender bias since the '40s, when manufacturers found they could sell more toys by offering separate versions for boys and girls, with the 'girls'' version often costing more.

This is a problem consumers are still faced with today, and many adults are now turning to non-gender-specific toys for boys and girls to avoid these commercial inequalities.

As well as saving money, gender neutral toys can address shortcomings found in gender-specific toys. Researchers have claimed that cognitive and motor skills are developed most through 'boys' toys', often encouraging aggressive play, while many 'girls' toys' only concern physical appearance or serving others within a domestic or nurturing setting.

By only playing within gender stereotypes, children risk learning unhealthy biases, and missing out on important development.

With all this in mind, we've found you nine wonderful gender neutral toys that would make gorgeous gifts for any child.

Kidadl's Top Pick

All the gender neutral toys on this list are worth a look, but if you're short on time this is our top pick based on its fantastic concept and the range of accessories it includes.

1. Mattel Creatable World Deluxe Character Kit‍

Mattel Creatable World Deluxe Character Kit.

Mattel released their Creatable World range in 2019, providing a 'gender neutral Barbie' for the 21st century. Their research found that children today are highly accepting of gender fluidity and love the level of creativity they have with a gender neutral doll.

One doll can become multiple different characters, keeping your child engaged and giving you excellent value for money.

Creatable World also offer 'Starter Packs' for less than half the price of the Deluxe Character Kit which is superb value. The Starter Pack features a doll with short hair wearing a top and shorts, with a long-hair wig included in the box.

Main Features

  • Price: £33.04
  • Suitable for ages 6+
  • Gender neutral body shape and make-up-free faces
  • Arrive in a simple vest top and shorts, with a short hairstyle
  • Includes a long wig, range of clothing, shoes, and accessories

Best Teddy Bear

2. Steiff Elmar Teddy Bear‍

Steiff Elmar brown Teddy Bear with signature label in its ear.

What could be more loved than the legendary Teddy Bear? Steiff are the original German makers of the jointed teddy, and for well over a century, each classic bear has featured their world-famous trademark, 'Knopf im Ohr': 'button in the ear'.

Steiff offer softer teddies for newborns as well as special edition bears, but the Golden Brown Elmar has been a trusted friend for many generations.

Main Features

  • Price: £44.90
  • Suitable for ages 3+
  • Moveable joints
  • Collector's item

Best For Energetic Kids

3. Hasbro Bop It! Maker Game‍

Hasbro Bop it! Maker Game.

Think you know all about Bop It!? Think again. Hasbro's newest addition to the Bop It! franchise lets you record your own moves and sounds, creating an ever-changing Bop It! experience. Kids will love putting their own stamp on this classic game and hearing themselves give commands!

Main Features

  • Price: £14.30
  • Suitable for ages 8+
  • Interactive microphone recorder for creating personalised play

Best For Storytellers

4. Hape All Season House‍

Little boy and girl playing with the Hape All Season House.

This dolls house rejects the pink and frilly, and instead creates a happy home with bright, cheerful colours. At 73cm tall, the house is open enough for multiple players, and detailed enough to sustain the interest of older children.

Whilst the dolls are not included, all house furnishings and extra accessory items are, making play realistic and interesting. Now, this is the kind of dolls' house we would like to see more of!

Main Features

  • Price: £88.68
  • Suitable for ages 3+
  • Reversible roof for different seasons with solar panels
  • Fully furnished
  • Includes accessory items such as lamps and pots and pans
  • Dolls are not included, but you can either move your own toys in, or Hape separately offer Black, Caucasian and East Asian family groups (not gender neutral)

Best Relaxing Toy

5. Cacchino Whale Sleep Aid‍

Cacchino Whale Sleep Aid soft toy with light and music.

If you're looking to help out exhausted parents, this cuddly whale sleep aid is oceans ahead of its competitors. Perfect for newborns upward, the whale projects soft colour-changing stars onto the ceiling while playing soothing music or white noise. Parents love this sensory whale for all ages - including themselves!

Main Features

  • Price: £25.97
  • Suitable for all ages
  • Removable electronic disc for whale-washing, travelling, or disc-free cuddling
  • Sounds include peaceful nursery rhymes, birdsong and heartbeat

Best Gender Neutral Puppet Toy

6. Silly Puppets Snail Hand Puppet‍

Silly Puppets Snail Hand Puppet orange toy.

Puppets are wonderful toys for children for many reasons. They help with developing imagination and social skills, as well as allowing kids to express their emotions and gain confidence when speaking.

Girls and boys can play with puppets whilst also learning and improving many skills - bonus! There are many gender-neutral puppet options out there, but we loved this Silly Snail the best for its high-quality material and easy use.

Main Features

  • Price: £34.99
  • Suitable for 5+
  • Retractable head
  • Pliable antennae for variable silly expressions
  • Suitable for children, or adults with smaller hands

Best For Long-Time Learning

7. Jaques of London Fractions Puzzle‍

Jaques of London Fractions Learning Puzzle.

Jaques have been creating high-quality children's toys since 1795, and they've knocked it out of the park with this mathematical twist on the classic shape-puzzle set. Two-year-olds will enjoy this toy for the bright colours and solid feel, but it's a toy to return to as your child learns sharing, and eventually simple fractions in Year 3.

Main Features

  • Price: £8.47
  • Suitable for 2+
  • Four circle shapes, with one whole circle, then divided into halves, thirds and quarters

Best For Creative Kids

8. Greensen Kids' Easel‍

Greensen folding magnetic kids' easel.

This double-sided Kids' Easel is perfect for a child with ideas on the go. The kit includes plenty of extras while remaining at the lower end of the price scale, and as drawing is a great distractor from electronic games you could even use the easel to record time spent away from devices.

A fantastic gift for a child who wants to express themselves.

Main Features

  • Price: £27.89
  • Suitable for 3+
  • Double sided with blackboard and magnetic whiteboard
  • Extendable legs
  • Includes eraser, watercolour pen, magnetic numbers and animal shapes, and anti-skid foot pads

Best For Disguise

9. Blue Squid Face Paint Kit for Kids‍

Blue Squid Face Paint Kit for Kids.

Kids will love transforming themselves with this fantastic face-painting set. With this toy, kids can let their imaginations run wild with their faces as the canvas!

Perfect for boys and girls alike, as well as younger and older children. Face painting is an enticing way for kids to get those creative juices flowing as they get to wear their hard work around with them. This Blue Squid set is great value, with fuller paint pots than most other sets, keeping the kids happy for longer.

Main Features

  • Price: £17.99
  • Suitable for ages 3+ with adult supervision
  • Includes a guidebook, three brushes and thirty reusable stencils
  • Paint pots give three times as much paint as rival brands
  • Vegan, cruelty-free, and suitable for sensitive skin

Kidadl Best Buys selects the top parent-recommended products across the web for families of all ages. Looking for more toys for children? You'll love these STEM toys for budding scientists or best keyboards for kids for little musicians.

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Written by Clare Wellham

Bachelor of Arts specializing in English and English Literature

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Clare WellhamBachelor of Arts specializing in English and English Literature

Born and raised in Yorkshire, Clare is an avid traveler and storyteller who is determined to explore as much of the world as possible. With a passion for encouraging others to step out of their comfort zones and discover new places, she loves sharing her adventures with others. Recently becoming an aunt for the first time, she's excited to discover all the fun and exciting kid-friendly activities out there. She has a Bachelor's degree in English Language and Literature from Leeds Trinity University.

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