59 Fascinating Friendship Facts That Will Improve Your Relationships

Sridevi Tolety
Oct 05, 2022 By Sridevi Tolety
Originally Published on Feb 08, 2022
Edited by Aubree Mosby
Fact-checked by Spandana Kantam
These friendship facts will help you realize that friends are the antidote to loneliness

The starting point and the core of every relationship is friendship.

Without our dear friends, life would be monotonous and meaningless. We share all of our secrets and can pour our hearts out to our friends.

The best part about having friends is that they love unconditionally without expecting anything in return. In contrast, friendships are always at the bottom of the hierarchy when relationships are counted.

Romantic partners, family ties, and children are prioritized over friends. Unlike other voluntary bonds, such as marriages and romantic relationships, friendships are unique.

They are voluntary and lack a formal structure. Some of our earliest friendships start with our family members. A close family member, like a cousin, can be among our dearest friends.

It is also said that the friendship aspect is key to a successful marriage. Hence, we share the most amazing relationships with our friends, and the times spent with them become the most memorable ones in our lives.

Quoted below are fascinating friendship facts that will help you improve your relationships.

 

The Psychological Benefits

A healthy friendship has many benefits, such as an increased feeling of belonging, purpose, increased levels of happiness, reduced stress levels, and improved self-worth and confidence. In a lifetime, we make many friends, but psychologically only one out of 12 friendships last forever.

Finding multiple best friends is also slim. Having zero friends and a sedentary life can be dangerous to your health, just like smoking or being overweight. Cited below are a few benefits of friendship:

  • Hanging out with a group of friends makes you look more attractive. This is called the cheerleader effect.
  • It increases feelings of security and helps protect against stress and depression.
  • It eases the emotional impact of difficulties and offers new ideas on tackling them.
  • It encourages changing or avoiding unhealthy lifestyle habits, such as excessive drinking or lack of exercise.
  • It helps you put aside your problems to develop a stronger sense of meaning and direction in life.
  • The reciprocity in a relationship helps sustain the bonding over time and ensures that the friendship lasts.
  • Studies have shown that adults with strong social support are at lower risk of many medical conditions like depression, high blood pressure, and obesity.
  • Best friends always help us cope with grief of all kinds, such as a death in the family or the loss of something important, like a job, a pet, or a relationship.
  • Friends encourage and push us towards healthy behaviors too. If a friend is into physical activity, we may as well be drawn into that.
  • The simple pleasure of being with our best friend leads to laughter, raising our spirits, and providing a distraction from the more serious aspects of life.
  • A friend might encourage us to attend an art exhibition or a classical music event that is not in our usual repertoires.
  • Friends give us effective constructive criticism and keep us grounded.
  • It helps bridge loneliness and makes us feel like we are a part of something much bigger in life.
  • Friends make us smile for silly reasons. Sometimes, even without a reason.
  • The best advantage of having friendships is that friends are ready to listen to you at any hour of the day or night.
  • Studies have shown that even young babies can understand friendship before walking or talking.
  • According to a survey, a successful marriage is based on a deep friendship.
  • Friendship becomes stronger when we know and can predict a friend's reaction to different situations.
  • Studies have shown that close friends at least share 1% of DNA, making them genetically connected.
  • Many animals like dolphins, baboons, chimpanzees, horses, and elephants can also make friends, outside of their species.

 

Friendships In Different Cultures

Friendships are perceived and constructed differently across countries and cultures. Some cultures practice a lighter definition of friendship, while others are stricter in the ways they define friendship. Based on how people define friendship, there is a variance in how many friends people have and what people expect from their friends.

  • Meeting people of a different class, race, and ethnicity teaches us to treat people accordingly and respect them individually.
  • Having culturally different friends allows you to develop an insight into their lives.
  • One does not remain confined to their own culture but understands other belief systems such as nuances of their practices, language, and certain habits.
  • It leads to self-personality development and growth, and a person becomes more adept at carrying oneself through different situations in life.
  • We learn to become more accommodating, accepting, and broad-minded of others' differences, thereby broadening our horizons and drifting away from a particular mindset.
  • It creates an awareness of one's own culture, and we go back to our roots.
  • It helps us rethink the stereotypes we might hold, thereby creating a stronger relationship.
  • Making good friends from different cultures promotes ethnic and religious tolerance.
  • It teaches us to master our emotions and handle situations with diplomacy.
  • It also exercises our taste buds with a wide variety of meals.
  • Having close friends of different cultures gives a chance to experience a rich selection of behaviors and eccentricities.
  • It helps overcome our shyness and nurtures us to be more confident.
  • It gives us a perfect opportunity to travel to places we would not have visited on our own.

 

Age And Friendship

A friendship that lasts for more than seven years remains for a lifetime. Friendships start very early, such as in preschool-aged kids, who consider everyone they mingle with as their friends.

And they understand the real meaning of friendship when they are as young as nine years old. The importance of friendship increases with age. Therefore, age does not matter in experiencing this beautiful relationship.

  • Childhood and teen friends are often confined to the neighborhood and school.
  • The average age a person makes a new friend and meets their best friend is in their early 20s.
  • Being friends with people of different ages helps us become understanding, good and valuable friends.
  • Having friends older or younger than you is beneficial as there's much to be learned from both scenarios.
  • An older best friend can guide us like a mentor and not a competitor.
  • Older friends tend to give the best career advice that is always insightful and practical.
  • Younger friends often bring renewed energy and vitality into your life.
  • College friends spend most of their time socializing.
  • Age-diverse workplace friendships help provide a balanced social exchange.
  • It helps improve employee interactions leading to lower levels of conflict and better task performance.
  • Studies have shown that most adults have only one or two close friends and often lose friends.
  • Men are more inclined to their female friends and are more likely to express their feelings and receive emotional support.
  • 'Age-is-just-a-number' friendships are wrapped in a cozy comfortableness that leads to less comparison, less judgment, and less competition.

 

Friendship And Social Media

Technological advances allow us to connect with anyone globally with a click of a button. But having hundreds of friends online isn't the same as you connecting with your trusted friends.

This doesn't mean you can't have buddies online. But ask yourself, 'how many of my social media friends or followers will lend me cab fare or offer a place to sleep if I turn up unexpectedly?' Let's have an in-depth look at the role of social media in friendships:

  • Social media helps us stay in touch with friends who have moved away.
  • It helps develop connections with others who have similar interests.
  • It helps connect with a more diverse group of people.
  • It plays a major role in getting through tough times in life.
  • Boys make more friends online than girls (61% vs. 52%).
  • Social media compels us to compare ourselves to others in our social network with positive and negative effects.
  • The crafting of our online personas has left a greater feeling of loneliness than before.
  • Online, we can be whomever we want to be, except ourselves.
  • We lose ourselves by spending so much time ensuring that people see us in a certain way.
  • Seeing other friends' posts and stories on social media having fun without us bothers us.
  • Sometimes, the transparent nature of social media causes friction, frustration, and fallouts.
  • Our post check-ins or likes are not always perceived well by people, which can lead to aggressiveness.
  • Research has shown that when it comes to friendship rankings, learning how to understand your friends' reactions, needs, and behaviors in social networking services plays a role in hte longevity of a friendship.

 

When we are born, we are bound by family bonds. However, friendship is a relation that we choose ourselves. It fills our lives with meaning.

It teaches us to share, love, care for, and, most importantly, fight odds to be successful. We all thrive and look for at least one friend who, at times, can hold us accountable and show appreciation as well. Having a true friend and strong friendship is a boon.

 

FAQs

What are the seven qualities of friendship?

The seven qualities of true friendship are: to accept each other irrespective of differences, to laugh at each other's jokes even if they're not funny, to not compete and be happy for friends' accomplishments, to be honest, to respect feelings, to not judge when we commit mistakes, to stick beside each other in difficult times, and to have mutual support without expecting anything in return.

Why is friendship so important in life?

Friendship brings happiness into our lives, impacting our physical and mental health.

What are the three types of friendship?

The three types of friendships are friendships of utility, friendships of pleasure, and friendships of the good.

What color stands for friendship?

The universal color of friendship is yellow.

What flower represents friendship?

Yellow roses are the quintessential flower of friendship.

How to accept that a friendship is over?

We must give ourselves some space to grieve the loss and not take it personally while trying to move on and concentrate on something new.

Why is friendship important?

Friendship is important because it involves an ever-lasting bond of happiness, sacrifice, and shared moments.

When to end a friendship?

We must end a friendship when we feel drained, stifled, unsatisfied, and unequal being in their company.

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Written by Sridevi Tolety

Bachelor of Science specializing in Botany, Master of Science specializing in Clinical Research and Regulatory Affairs

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Sridevi ToletyBachelor of Science specializing in Botany, Master of Science specializing in Clinical Research and Regulatory Affairs

With a Master's degree in clinical research from Manipal University and a PG Diploma in journalism from Bharatiya Vidya Bhavan, Sridevi has cultivated her passion for writing across various domains. She has authored a wide range of articles, blogs, travelogues, creative content, and short stories that have been published in leading magazines, newspapers, and websites. Sridevi is fluent in four languages and enjoys spending her spare time with loved ones. Her hobbies include reading, traveling, cooking, painting, and listening to music.

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Bachelor of Arts specializing in Political Science and Sociology

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